I become anxious thinking about sex with my girlfriend after not getting erection the first time
DEAR DEIDRE: THE first time I had sex with my girlfriend I wanted it to be really special and a night to remember – but I couldn’t get an erection.…
I’m sure my lack of hair is reason woman I met at gym hasn’t called me
DEAR DEIDRE: WHILE working out at my local gym last week I met a great woman – but I’m sure my lack of hair has put her off. I’ve seen…
I think I raped my girlfriend after a night spent drinking with her
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER a night spent drinking with my girlfriend, I think I raped her. I am 26 and she is 25. We have been together for just over two…
My boyfriend turned into a different person after declaring his undying love
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER declaring his undying love to me, my boyfriend suddenly dropped me, saying he didn’t have time for a relationship. But he had time to slide into my…
No-strings sex with a guy at work was working well at first but now I’m feeling used
DEAR DEIDRE: NO-STRINGS sex with a guy at work was working well at first but now I’m feeling used. We were due to meet up last weekend but he had…
I’m worried my parents may split up soon – it’s stressing me out so much I can’t think straight
DEAR DEIDRE: THE worry that my parents may split up soon is stressing me out so much I can’t think straight. I am a 16-year-old lad. My parents have been…
I find my fiancée repulsive since she piled on the pounds
DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my fiancée piled on the pounds, I’ve stopped feeling attracted to her. In fact, I find her repulsive. Our lack of sex isn’t helped by the fact…
My married daughter seems intent on destroying her entire life after claiming she never wanted a child
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my married daughter told me she didn’t want to be a mum any more, ten months after the arrival of her first-born, I was overcome with sadness…
My husband has been accused of historic sexual abuse and I’m devastated
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has been accused of historic sexual abuse by a female relative, and I’m devastated. It has torn my formerly close family apart – nobody is talking…
My partner says our son is mine but our congratulation cards beg to differ
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my partner went into labour, nobody called me to say she was about to have the baby. Now I’ve found some cards congratulating her and another man…